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Tag: shame

Navigate ourselves

I do not wish to tread on toes, trespass on turf, piss on any bonfires and I certainly understand where you are coming from. However, can we just shatter a few illusions, debunk a few theories, dispel a few myths and while we are it, puncture a few balloons?

Steve Foster Essays From The Shadows Leave a comment August 6, 2026September 2, 2026 3 Minutes

Is that a euphemism in your pocket, or are you just pleased to see me? 

oral sex. sucking cock. blow job. blowie. going down. giving head. fellatio. sloppy toppy. nosh. hummer. gob job. lip service. gobble. suck off. swallow a sword. oral gratification. that act.

Steve Foster Essays From The Shadows Leave a comment July 16, 2026September 2, 2026 3 Minutes

Strong

You will not be surprised to learn that my internal monologue is relentless and quite sharp and tetchy. I come up with cutting exit lines, edit, rewind, try again.

Steve Foster Essays From The Shadows Leave a comment June 18, 2026September 2, 2026 4 Minutes

Hide & Seek With Ourselves

Over the years I have inhabited this planet I have seen how humans have got better at defining their sexuality.

Steve Foster Essays From The Shadows Leave a comment May 7, 2026September 2, 2026 3 Minutes

Open Journal #58

Listen to this on the podcast Message in a digital bottle. i have this odd urge to write to a lonely boy in a bedsit,  a teenager who doesn't feel understood,  a man alone because his divorce just came through and it all went wrong and he has no idea why but there is something … Continue reading Open Journal #58 →

Steve Foster Open Journal Leave a comment February 12, 2026September 4, 2026 3 Minutes

Open Journal #49

Listen to this on the podcast I think it is time I came out.Not in quite the way that statement is usually used. I’ve spent twenty years of my life in front of people. Hosting things. Debates, mostly—big rooms, big crowds. I’ve talked about being a survivor (in a careful, sanitised way—nothing like what we … Continue reading Open Journal #49 →

Steve Foster Open Journal Leave a comment December 4, 2025September 4, 2026 3 Minutes

Open Journal #37

Listen to this on the podcast I am going to write about something difficult It is possible that it might be triggering My apologies if it is … it is not my intent We are all grown ups and survivors and men. If you have spent any time on this site and participated in chat … Continue reading Open Journal #37 →

Steve Foster Open Journal Leave a comment September 11, 2025September 4, 2026 5 Minutes

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